Watch this video why some women are attracted to men who are mean to them, and reject nice people.
Nice guys and jerks were available to all the girls, yet the woman who chose the [scary] jerk said she was comfortable with the jerk, meaning your comfort zone and programming is more powerful than you think. Actually, you are NOT thinking, your Energy Cage took control of you.
People who have their Energy Cage removed will suddenly have better clarity in making decisions, and remove themselves from manipulative people. They stop sabotaging their relationships and careers.